My family is really close with each other. We trust each other and love each other. In 2009 my sister got pregenant. This was her first baby. We were all very excited and couldnt wait for someone new to join our family. Personally I always wanted a smaller brother or sister because I was the "baby" in the family. But then again being the baby is actually good. You get spoiled more and get more attention. So for my niece coming to take my spotlight was kind of a downhill in my life.
Someone new coming into our family was a life changing experience. In the beginning
I was worried.
I was worried my mom would lovee her granddaughter so much that she would cook for my niece and forget to cook for me.
I was worried that my dad would love my grandaughter so much that he would forget to call me everyday to see how im doing or just to go get a coffee just because he was busy buying my niece toys.
I was worried that my sister would forget to even ask how I was doing because she would be too busy changing her daughters diaper. I would think "what if all that actually happend when my niece came to this so called earth?" When I would think that I would get sad and say to my self I would rather just be invisble or even a piece of furniture laying in the house.
Today my niece is turning one in 2 weeks and one day. I love her a lot. honestly everything i thought before about my family forget about me wasnt even close to what happend. They still love me and care for me and feed me and call me everyday and ask for me and just plain and simple are with me. They never let me down. They are always there when i need them. I know the little kids get more attention. so ofcourse they give alittle bit more attention to the new baby in the family. Im totally okay with it because they still treat me the same as they did throughtout are there lives which was good.
Later in the future if my sister or my future wife have a baby I dont want Gianna(my niece) to think what i thought when my sister told me she was pregnant. thats BEYOOOOOOOND the opposite. They will always love her and care for her even if theres a smaller baby then her. They just might have to be with the little one more time because they need to be more taken care of. Its like a new pair of shoes. At first you dont want to get them dirty so you take relle good care of them . When they get a bit dirty then u start to be more not soo worried about getting them so dirty.
For the first paragraph i forgot something.
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